tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post6681556243256251152..comments2023-08-21T03:26:53.189-07:00Comments on Lunatic Ramblings: Friends.adenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17893052655650105848noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post-4487047307766351252009-06-16T13:44:39.462-07:002009-06-16T13:44:39.462-07:00First of all, dude it's way easier to deal wit...First of all, dude it's way easier to deal with people on the internet than real life. But how you remedy that is think, well, I could be sitting here doing nothing or I could be sitting at my friend's house doing nothing. That's how I roll. I could be sitting here alone, or I could let my friend come over. It's all good. <br /><br />Second, I say slowly back away if it's not a current threat. If it is a current threat, dispense bitch slaps as needed. Otherwise, back away slowly, find something better to do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07772943556185810887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post-67374580583759866262009-06-16T10:10:11.959-07:002009-06-16T10:10:11.959-07:00I cut them off and ignore them unless they invade ...I cut them off and ignore them unless they invade my space. THEN, I let them have it.anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03956133961016192278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post-30288370757715088812009-06-16T09:31:03.872-07:002009-06-16T09:31:03.872-07:00Hey Adena! Sorry you're having to go through t...Hey Adena! Sorry you're having to go through this crap, I think all of us have gone through this at one time or another. It's very disappointing to find that someone you considered a friend is really no friend at all. <br />I would not be passive-aggressive and just ignore it away. Confront this person and let them know they are no longer a part of your life. <br />We were only friends in middle school, but I still remember us laughing it up in class and you being very genuine. I valued you and your friendship. :) <br />Dani (it's anonymous because i forgot my pswd LOL)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post-55784048413920706232009-06-16T09:07:56.953-07:002009-06-16T09:07:56.953-07:00You let them know why you are no longer speaking t...You let them know why you are no longer speaking to them, and then stick to it. Since you are comfortable with writing, you could use that outlet via email, but when it's something so personal (which it obviously is if it's bothering you this much), you might consider speaking to them in person about it. Just be careful to keep it "just the facts ma'am" when you stand your ground, state your problem (they are a lying a$$), and let them know your solution (they no longer get to talk to you).<br />And for the record - you are one of the most caring, loving, sharp-witted, hilariously funny, intelligent women I know and I love you for it... and anyone who thinks otherwise can piss off and isn't worthy of being your friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14681094.post-4685312626483810222009-06-16T08:25:27.598-07:002009-06-16T08:25:27.598-07:00CD said...email this person and tell them you can&...CD said...email this person and tell them you can't talk to them anymore because of what they did. Easy peasy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com